The emblem I've chosen for Dementia CAREShare is the Forget-Me-Not flower, a symbol frequently adopted by the Alzheimer’s Association and similar organizations. This delicate bloom represents hope, courage, and resilience for those battling or caring for individuals afflicted with memory-impairing diseases.
However, I've chosen this symbol to convey a slightly nuanced message. I envision this flower, this plea, as the final request of any individual living with dementia.
Please, forget me not.
Remember me as I was before this devastating disease began to erode my mind. Cherish the joyful moments we shared, and all the ordinary times in between. As you grapple with the hollow shell that now mirrors the person you once knew, I implore you to show compassion in caring for me. Visit me, even when I no longer recognize you. Ensure that I am nourished and looked after, as I am no longer capable of doing these things for myself. Forgive me for any instances where I may have upset you, and know that I forgive you too. Understand that I love you, even when I am unable to express it.
When my journey on this earth concludes, I ask that you gently tuck away the memories of me as I am now into a distant corner of your mind. Instead, hold onto the vivid image of who I used to be, when I was your friend, your mother, your father, your son, or your daughter. That is the person I hope you remember.